Seven states in the country now allow same sex couples to be married. Although Illinois is not one of them, last June the state became one of six states to recognize civil unions.

While a civil union is not the legal equivalent of a marriage, it does offer many of the benefits and protections. Since June, more than 1,800 couples have taken advantage of the new law in Cook County alone.

Those who have taken advantage of the change in Illinois law cited added protection for end of life issues, such as medical decisions, hospital visitation rights and inheritances. A civil union also protects a partner's right to sue for wrongful death. In the absence of a will, a civil union also gives someone claim to inherit all of their partner's belongings.

Although married couples can file their taxes jointly, the Department of Revenue just recently issued guidelines for filing of joint tax returns for those joined by a civil union.

Despite the surge in civil unions, some are waiting for the right to be legally married. Some feel that the lack of acceptance around the country makes civil unions unacceptable. One individual said it felt like a cheapened version of marriage.

Recently, one same sex Illinois couple decided to enter into a civil union despite their initial feelings against it. At first they felt civil unions were only second best compared to marriage, but wanted to take advantage of it once it became law.

Although some couples may feel unsure about a civil union, those considering it would do well to fully investigate all of the facts to determine if it is the best choice. It is important to remember that those couples in a civil union may have the same legal responsibilities as married couples if the union is dissolved.

Source: The Windy City Times, "Civil unions: Halfway through the first year," Zen Vuong, Dec. 7, 2011